Manners (slightly off-topic)
Just wanted to share an opinion with the list. I've noticed that most of the people on this that are not from the States are rather polite with their posts, and more than helpful when in need of Sting related items. I'm assuming that manners are taught across the pond. Here in the States, (list members excluded) whenever you deal with someone you've never met, a number of people here tend to be a horse's ass first and polite second. Manners are almost an afterthought in the U.S., and politeness is often mistaken for a weakness and some people will try to take advantage of your kindness. What am I getting at? I guess I'm just expressing my gratitude for some of the folks on the list who care enough to wish me well when they close their posts. Your kind gesture is appreciated. Ok, I'm off my soapbox for now. Don in Sunny, (Cold!) Florida
on 3/1/02 3:09 PM, Morris, Donald T. at MORRDT@jea.com wrote: Here in the States, (list members excluded) whenever you deal with someone you¹ve never met, a number of people here tend to be a horse¹s ass first and polite second. Manners are almost an afterthought in the U.S., and politeness is often mistaken for a weakness and some people will try to take advantage of your kindness. Don, Can't say I agree with you. I don't think it's a good idea to spread negative stereotypes about the people of any nation, even if it's the one in which you live. By the way, I've been living in New York City for the past 22 years, and I frequently receive comments on the kindness and consideration of our citizens from the international community where I make my living. Just my 5 cents (hey, this is an expensive town). Beth in NYC
Re: [Police] Manners (slightly off-topic)Question: Are positive stereotypes acceptable? -----Original Message----- From: police-admin@mailman.xmission.com [mailto:police-admin@mailman.xmission.com]On Behalf Of Beth Meetsma Sent: Friday, March 01, 2002 4:27 PM To: Morris, Donald T.; police@xmission.com Subject: Re: [Police] Manners (slightly off-topic) on 3/1/02 3:09 PM, Morris, Donald T. at MORRDT@jea.com wrote: Here in the States, (list members excluded) whenever you deal with someone you¹ve never met, a number of people here tend to be a horse¹s ass first and polite second. Manners are almost an afterthought in the U.S., and politeness is often mistaken for a weakness and some people will try to take advantage of your kindness. Don, Can't say I agree with you. I don't think it's a good idea to spread negative stereotypes about the people of any nation, even if it's the one in which you live. By the way, I've been living in New York City for the past 22 years, and I frequently receive comments on the kindness and consideration of our citizens from the international community where I make my living. Just my 5 cents (hey, this is an expensive town). Beth in NYC
Re: [Police] Manners (slightly off-topic)Well I dont know about anyone else, but folks in my home city (Belleville Ontario Canada) are pretty darn nice. Just the other day I was coming home and some girl had slid off of the road into the ditch and passing cars had stopped and were pushing her out. They all shook hands before they left. It was damn cold out too, I know because I had the car heater on full as I zipped straight past the girl in the ditch while giving her the finger for holding me up. As I said, people are nice in my town, but not me hahahahahaha!!! ----- Original Message ----- From: Ross (discoduck) Viner To: police@xmission.com Sent: Friday, March 01, 2002 7:04 PM Subject: RE: [Police] Manners (slightly off-topic) Question: Are positive stereotypes acceptable? -----Original Message----- From: police-admin@mailman.xmission.com [mailto:police-admin@mailman.xmission.com]On Behalf Of Beth Meetsma Sent: Friday, March 01, 2002 4:27 PM To: Morris, Donald T.; police@xmission.com Subject: Re: [Police] Manners (slightly off-topic) on 3/1/02 3:09 PM, Morris, Donald T. at MORRDT@jea.com wrote: Here in the States, (list members excluded) whenever you deal with someone you¹ve never met, a number of people here tend to be a horse¹s ass first and polite second. Manners are almost an afterthought in the U.S., and politeness is often mistaken for a weakness and some people will try to take advantage of your kindness. Don, Can't say I agree with you. I don't think it's a good idea to spread negative stereotypes about the people of any nation, even if it's the one in which you live. By the way, I've been living in New York City for the past 22 years, and I frequently receive comments on the kindness and consideration of our citizens from the international community where I make my living. Just my 5 cents (hey, this is an expensive town). Beth in NYC
Re: [Police] Manners (slightly off-topic)I already mailed Donald but I thought I'd share my European point of view with you all: I think his might be only an impression, because it seems that most of the listers are from the States (or at least they mail the list more often), so it's statistically more likely to find different kinds of people among them. Anyway, all of my American mail pals are as polite and helpful as can be, so don't be too harsh on the people from your country! Ciao Michele ----- Original Message ----- From: Beth Meetsma To: Morris, Donald T. ; police@xmission.com Sent: Saturday, March 02, 2002 1:26 AM Subject: Re: [Police] Manners (slightly off-topic) on 3/1/02 3:09 PM, Morris, Donald T. at MORRDT@jea.com wrote: Here in the States, (list members excluded) whenever you deal with someone you¹ve never met, a number of people here tend to be a horse¹s ass first and polite second. Manners are almost an afterthought in the U.S., and politeness is often mistaken for a weakness and some people will try to take advantage of your kindness. Don, Can't say I agree with you. I don't think it's a good idea to spread negative stereotypes about the people of any nation, even if it's the one in which you live. By the way, I've been living in New York City for the past 22 years, and I frequently receive comments on the kindness and consideration of our citizens from the international community where I make my living. Just my 5 cents (hey, this is an expensive town). Beth in NYC
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