Baiting the field... slightly OT, but sailing related
Hi folks: Here's the situation... I've finally gotten my wife to agree to a bareboat charter in the spring of next year, after our 12-year-old gets off for summer vacation. In general, she doesn't much care for sailboats. She'll indulge me for a quick afternoon on the Monty, IF the wind is blowing (but not too much... she gets very nervous past 15 degrees of heel) and we don't stay out too long. But I was a liveaboard sailor, and if I could talk her into it, I'd buy another large boat for some extended cruising. Karen's never overnighted aboard... my M17 is WAY too small for her. A charter, if everything goes right, is my big chance to get her hooked on the better parts of the sailing lifestyle. I was thinking of the Moorings in the BVI on about a 32 foot Beneteau or similar. I hear that's like deer hunting using a baited field... the Virgins are so pretty and the sailing is short and easy, or so I've heard. I've never chartered a boat before, though, so I need recommendations and advice from any of you who have. Any problems to avoid, things you wish you'd brought, or unexpected surprises? If everything goes just right, I know she'll fall in love with sailing a larger boat. If everything goes just WRONG, as it sometimes can... well, I'll probably never get her on a boat again. Your thoughts will be appreciated. Thanks Brian Gilbert
i've never chartered in warmer waters (puget sound sailer), but i'll just toss out comments/observations that i believe relate to your situation: if 15deg heal 'freaks' your wife i encourage you to look for a boat that is known for stiffness and performs well at low levels of heal. i've not been on a Beneteau (only on land at a boat show, never in the water), but i know one will sail better than my families old cheoy lee 32' (a boat that got cranky if the heal was above 15deg because of her large beams (a '79 'fatty', not the narrower 50s and 60s models). the family boat would balance herself if the on a reach or to the wind if the sails were correct for the wind (like 'spray'). over drive the boat and she slowed down, pounded the sea, and got a case of nasty weather helm. a boat underpowered in any sea is going to roll and pitch much more than 15deg. i've taken many a 'stinkpotter' that commented the sailboat was 'smoother' and more sea friendly than any motorboat (as they tend to rock and roll like a cork in any sea). now a montgomery likes to be over a bit (i'd say +/- a few deg. off 20deg). easy to get leaning, but stays put once over into the 'sweet spot.' (i'm sure my comment about a M's best angle of heal for performance with start another long discussion.) well, here are my thoughts, don't know if they are of any assistance. good luck. dave scobie M15 #288 (not yet named) brian gilbert <hammerguy@bellsouth.net> wrote: Hi folks: Here's the situation... I've finally gotten my wife to agree to a bareboat charter in the spring of next year, after our 12-year-old gets off for summer vacation. In general, she doesn't much care for sailboats. She'll indulge me for a quick afternoon on the Monty, IF the wind is blowing (but not too much... she gets very nervous past 15 degrees of heel) and we don't stay out too long. But I was a liveaboard sailor, and if I could talk her into it, I'd buy another large boat for some extended cruising. Karen's never overnighted aboard... my M17 is WAY too small for her. A charter, if everything goes right, is my big chance to get her hooked on the better parts of the sailing lifestyle. I was thinking of the Moorings in the BVI on about a 32 foot Beneteau or similar. I hear that's like deer hunting using a baited field... the Virgins are so pretty and the sailing is short and easy, or so I've heard. I've never chartered a boat before, though, so I need recommendations and advice from any of you who have. Any problems to avoid, things you wish you'd brought, or unexpected surprises? If everything goes just right, I know she'll fall in love with sailing a larger boat. If everything goes just WRONG, as it sometimes can... well, I'll probably never get her on a boat again. Your thoughts will be appreciated. Thanks Brian Gilbert --------------------------------- We won't tell. Get more on shows you hate to love (and love to hate): Yahoo! TV's Guilty Pleasures list.
Good timing on this subject... i was just going to write about it myself. My fiance and i just went out a couple days ago in a pretty good blow. Our Monty 17 was healing at up to 30deg and we found that "exhilerating" to say the least. How much more could it take? Should we be more fearful than we were at 30deg? Does she tend to "dig in" at that angle (she seemed to)? Also, our GPS clocked us at around 6.3mph... is that typical? Slow? I need to tune her up. She needs a new jib and some stay/shroud replacements (especially the backstay... Jerry, an order is coming your way soon). Neither of us swim all too well and we did have our PFD's on... it was a great day... fortunately Tina is a bit of a thrill seeker. I am blessed. Jeff Monty 17 #336 W David Scobie <wdscobie@yahoo.com> wrote: i've never chartered in warmer waters (puget sound sailer), but i'll just toss out comments/observations that i believe relate to your situation: if 15deg heal 'freaks' your wife i encourage you to look for a boat that is known for stiffness and performs well at low levels of heal. i've not been on a Beneteau (only on land at a boat show, never in the water), but i know one will sail better than my families old cheoy lee 32' (a boat that got cranky if the heal was above 15deg because of her large beams (a '79 'fatty', not the narrower 50s and 60s models). the family boat would balance herself if the on a reach or to the wind if the sails were correct for the wind (like 'spray'). over drive the boat and she slowed down, pounded the sea, and got a case of nasty weather helm. a boat underpowered in any sea is going to roll and pitch much more than 15deg. i've taken many a 'stinkpotter' that commented the sailboat was 'smoother' and more sea friendly than any motorboat (as they tend to rock and roll like a cork in any sea). now a montgomery likes to be over a bit (i'd say +/- a few deg. off 20deg). easy to get leaning, but stays put once over into the 'sweet spot.' (i'm sure my comment about a M's best angle of heal for performance with start another long discussion.) well, here are my thoughts, don't know if they are of any assistance. good luck. dave scobie M15 #288 (not yet named) brian gilbert wrote: Hi folks: Here's the situation... I've finally gotten my wife to agree to a bareboat charter in the spring of next year, after our 12-year-old gets off for summer vacation. In general, she doesn't much care for sailboats. She'll indulge me for a quick afternoon on the Monty, IF the wind is blowing (but not too much... she gets very nervous past 15 degrees of heel) and we don't stay out too long. But I was a liveaboard sailor, and if I could talk her into it, I'd buy another large boat for some extended cruising. Karen's never overnighted aboard... my M17 is WAY too small for her. A charter, if everything goes right, is my big chance to get her hooked on the better parts of the sailing lifestyle. I was thinking of the Moorings in the BVI on about a 32 foot Beneteau or similar. I hear that's like deer hunting using a baited field... the Virgins are so pretty and the sailing is short and easy, or so I've heard. I've never chartered a boat before, though, so I need recommendations and advice from any of you who have. Any problems to avoid, things you wish you'd brought, or unexpected surprises? If everything goes just right, I know she'll fall in love with sailing a larger boat. If everything goes just WRONG, as it sometimes can... well, I'll probably never get her on a boat again. Your thoughts will be appreciated. Thanks Brian Gilbert --------------------------------- We won't tell. Get more on shows you hate to love (and love to hate): Yahoo! TV's Guilty Pleasures list. _______________________________________________ http://mailman.xmission.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/montgomery_boats
Figured someone with more knowledge than I do would address this, but I'll offer a few comments. Imagine a foot long piece of 2 x 4. Imagine a pound or two of lead weight, roughly the shape of a big fat cigar. The weight can be attached on the flat side in the middle, or on the edge. If on the flat, you have a piece of wood, which compared to the edge weighted board, will float the lead shallower. If you attached a rod to the other side of the board to resemble a mast sticking up, you could push on that mast, but in a short distance, encounter a lot of resistance. That is the form stability of the flat sided object. At about 10 to 15 degrees, you are going to have to push pretty hard to get it to move. But past maybe 45 to 50 degrees, it will get easier. Beyond that, much easier to lay on it's side (a 90 degree knockdown). Depending on how much weight you added, if you release the "mast" it may right itself. Without the weight, probably not. By comparison, add the weight to the edge, and the mast to the other edge and it will be easy to push the mast over to about 20 degrees or more, upon which it will start to stiffen up.....a lot. The farther you push, the harder it gets to push. Releasing the mast at 90 degrees and it will pop back up in a hurry. This option doesn't have much form stability, but does have a greater ultimate stability.....and deeper draft. The first option represents a boat like our keel weighted, shoal draft Monty's. The second, more of a full keel boat like a Triton. In my opinoin, If you go out in a blow in a Monty and you are heeled over 30 degrees or more, you are pushing it. She will be pinned down and trying hard to right herself....probably sailing slower and putting you at risk of a knockdown if she stops to round up, then is hit with a gust. I've done it and it's no faster....slower actually.....than a double reefed main with storm jib, sailing at 15 degrees heel or less. On her feet and moving, with low center of effort. With much less strain on the rigging and crew. I've also been out on the other style of boat, pinned on her ear and washing the windows.....actually standing on the side of the cockpit seat backs or cabin sides. At some point, the wind just pins her down and she stops.......Interesting, but not that much fun.....not to mention all the crap flying around down below that has to be put back where it came from. Anecdotal evidence suggests the Monty's will right themselves if knocked down, but if I was not a good swimmer, or the water was cold, or my sweetie was along and I didn't want to risk having her never speak to me again, I'd not want to find out. If she goes over, with you in the cockpit, expect to go overboard....if she pops back up with sheets made off fast....expect her to move off into the distance faster than you can swim to catch her. None of that sounds good to me. In my view, once you are up to hull speed....much over 5.5 knots.....and heeling much over 20 degrees, it's time to reef......and keep reefing to stay under control. If need be, upwind, ditch the jib. Downwind, the main. I've done 2 plus knots downwind under bare poles. The storm jib alone would have had me up to 5 knots easy. I'm not talking slow.....fast is fun.....what I'm suggesting is fast and under control. Second part: my sister and hubby went to the BVI's last year for their 30th anniversary. 32 foot benny toe. They absolutely loved it. I'd go in a heartbeat. I also agree with what has been said about taking reluctant crew. They are just passengers along for the ride...with no duties or responsibilities. If they offer to help....allow it, but make no demands or offer nothing but praise....no matter what. Even that may not help if they are hot, sick, sticky and cramped into a tiny space. For some......it's just not their thing. Howard M17, #278 On Apr 12, 2007, at 7:50 AM, Jeff Royce wrote:
Good timing on this subject... i was just going to write about it myself. My fiance and i just went out a couple days ago in a pretty good blow. Our Monty 17 was healing at up to 30deg and we found that "exhilarating" to say the least. How much more could it take? Should we be more fearful than we were at 30deg? Does she tend to "dig in" at that angle (she seemed to)?
Also, our GPS clocked us at around 6.3mph... is that typical? Slow? I need to tune her up. She needs a new jib and some stay/shroud replacements (especially the backstay... Jerry, an order is coming your way soon).
Neither of us swim all too well and we did have our PFD's on... it was a great day... fortunately Tina is a bit of a thrill seeker. I am blessed.
Jeff Monty 17 #336
W David Scobie <wdscobie@yahoo.com> wrote: i've never chartered in warmer waters (puget sound sailer), but i'll just toss out comments/observations that i believe relate to your situation:
if 15deg heal 'freaks' your wife i encourage you to look for a boat that is known for stiffness and performs well at low levels of heal. i've not been on a Beneteau (only on land at a boat show, never in the water), but i know one will sail better than my families old cheoy lee 32' (a boat that got cranky if the heal was above 15deg because of her large beams (a '79 'fatty', not the narrower 50s and 60s models). the family boat would balance herself if the on a reach or to the wind if the sails were correct for the wind (like 'spray'). over drive the boat and she slowed down, pounded the sea, and got a case of nasty weather helm.
a boat underpowered in any sea is going to roll and pitch much more than 15deg. i've taken many a 'stinkpotter' that commented the sailboat was 'smoother' and more sea friendly than any motorboat (as they tend to rock and roll like a cork in any sea).
now a montgomery likes to be over a bit (i'd say +/- a few deg. off 20deg). easy to get leaning, but stays put once over into the 'sweet spot.' (i'm sure my comment about a M's best angle of heal for performance with start another long discussion.)
well, here are my thoughts, don't know if they are of any assistance. good luck.
dave scobie M15 #288 (not yet named)
brian gilbert wrote: Hi folks:
Here's the situation... I've finally gotten my wife to agree to a bareboat charter in the spring of next year, after our 12-year-old gets off for summer vacation.
In general, she doesn't much care for sailboats. She'll indulge me for a quick afternoon on the Monty, IF the wind is blowing (but not too much... she gets very nervous past 15 degrees of heel) and we don't stay out too long.
But I was a liveaboard sailor, and if I could talk her into it, I'd buy another large boat for some extended cruising. Karen's never overnighted aboard... my M17 is WAY too small for her. A charter, if everything goes right, is my big chance to get her hooked on the better parts of the sailing lifestyle.
I was thinking of the Moorings in the BVI on about a 32 foot Beneteau or similar. I hear that's like deer hunting using a baited field... the Virgins are so pretty and the sailing is short and easy, or so I've heard. I've never chartered a boat before, though, so I need recommendations and advice from any of you who have. Any problems to avoid, things you wish you'd brought, or unexpected surprises?
If everything goes just right, I know she'll fall in love with sailing a larger boat. If everything goes just WRONG, as it sometimes can... well, I'll probably never get her on a boat again. Your thoughts will be appreciated.
Thanks Brian Gilbert
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Great analogy Howard. I had never thought of the balance issue quite like your 2 X 4 and lead bar version....I like it. I will remember that when explaining these points of life to folks that just don't 'get' sailboats. I would like to also add a comment to your comment....quote: "In my view, once you are up to hull speed....much over 5.5 knots.....and heeling much over 20 degrees, it's time to reef......and keep reefing to stay under control. If need be, upwind, ditch the jib. Downwind, the main. I've done 2 plus knots downwind under bare poles. The storm jib alone would have had me up to 5 knots easy. I'm not talking slow.....fast is fun.....what I'm suggesting is fast and under control. " I often do exactly the same thing....take down the jib when over powered to windward...or dowse the main for a headsail only off the wind. But, the point I would like to make is that this configuration can be a tad unsafe, in a roundaboutway. Meaning a headsail alone. I am mentioning this only for the novice sailors as additional input and an offer of additional options. Reason being that if you needed full maneuverability in some sort of unplanned scenario, you would not have full maneuverability under headsail alone. Up to a beam reach....or at best a close reach without a main is about all that could be done. What if there was a man overboard when set up this way? Being able to round up, haul in the sheets and tack your way back up hill becomes something you would want to be able to do easily and quickly.....without having to bend on the headsail....or even just hoist it, then reef the main to balance everything out to be able to start heading back up. Too much time. As I said before, I sometimes do this very thing myself because it is just easier plus more relaxing to zip downhill with just a headsail. Specially in a heavy weather. But a balanced configuration of reefed main and reduced headsail is 'better'..... or at least what I have been taught is better by folks that have worlds more experience than I will ever have. Just as a case in point. I am a great admirer of AC (Charles) Stock. He has, in a span of about 35 years, sailed his 16' 6" wood gaff rigged cutter 60,000 miles (sixty thousand miles) mostly all within the Thames Estuary. I have a favourite image of Charles and his boat Shoal Waters sailing across a crowded Harbor on a very windy day. He has a classic 'balanced' sail plan for the conditions. Storm stay'sl and Tri'sl. Note the main is furled and the boom in it's crutch, the stay'sl has twin sheets and is loose footed. I have read quotes from folks who have watched Charles sailing in conditions like this and comment at how relaxed and unaffected he appears. Usually with a mug of tea nearby...... (In the case of an M17 a small jib and double reefed main is a great set in hi pressure I have found) The photo is from his book, Sailing Just For Fun. I took a photo of the photo and popped it up to my server. Here is the link: http://www.timtone.com/tt/ttphotos/images/ShoalWatersWellReefed.jpg Cheers, Tim D Howard Audsley wrote:
Figured someone with more knowledge than I do would address this, but I'll offer a few comments.
Imagine a foot long piece of 2 x 4. Imagine a pound or two of lead weight, roughly the shape of a big fat cigar. The weight can be attached on the flat side in the middle, or on the edge. If on the flat, you have a piece of wood, which compared to the edge weighted board, will float the lead shallower. If you attached a rod to the other side of the board to resemble a mast sticking up, you could push on that mast, but in a short distance, encounter a lot of resistance. That is the form stability of the flat sided object. At about 10 to 15 degrees, you are going to have to push pretty hard to get it to move. But past maybe 45 to 50 degrees, it will get easier. Beyond that, much easier to lay on it's side (a 90 degree knockdown). Depending on how much weight you added, if you release the "mast" it may right itself. Without the weight, probably not.
By comparison, add the weight to the edge, and the mast to the other edge and it will be easy to push the mast over to about 20 degrees or more, upon which it will start to stiffen up.....a lot. The farther you push, the harder it gets to push. Releasing the mast at 90 degrees and it will pop back up in a hurry. This option doesn't have much form stability, but does have a greater ultimate stability.....and deeper draft.
The first option represents a boat like our keel weighted, shoal draft Monty's. The second, more of a full keel boat like a Triton.
In my opinoin, If you go out in a blow in a Monty and you are heeled over 30 degrees or more, you are pushing it. She will be pinned down and trying hard to right herself....probably sailing slower and putting you at risk of a knockdown if she stops to round up, then is hit with a gust. I've done it and it's no faster....slower actually.....than a double reefed main with storm jib, sailing at 15 degrees heel or less. On her feet and moving, with low center of effort. With much less strain on the rigging and crew.
I've also been out on the other style of boat, pinned on her ear and washing the windows.....actually standing on the side of the cockpit seat backs or cabin sides. At some point, the wind just pins her down and she stops.......Interesting, but not that much fun.....not to mention all the crap flying around down below that has to be put back where it came from.
Anecdotal evidence suggests the Monty's will right themselves if knocked down, but if I was not a good swimmer, or the water was cold, or my sweetie was along and I didn't want to risk having her never speak to me again, I'd not want to find out. If she goes over, with you in the cockpit, expect to go overboard....if she pops back up with sheets made off fast....expect her to move off into the distance faster than you can swim to catch her. None of that sounds good to me.
In my view, once you are up to hull speed....much over 5.5 knots.....and heeling much over 20 degrees, it's time to reef......and keep reefing to stay under control. If need be, upwind, ditch the jib. Downwind, the main. I've done 2 plus knots downwind under bare poles. The storm jib alone would have had me up to 5 knots easy. I'm not talking slow.....fast is fun.....what I'm suggesting is fast and under control.
Second part: my sister and hubby went to the BVI's last year for their 30th anniversary. 32 foot benny toe. They absolutely loved it. I'd go in a heartbeat.
I also agree with what has been said about taking reluctant crew. They are just passengers along for the ride...with no duties or responsibilities. If they offer to help....allow it, but make no demands or offer nothing but praise....no matter what. Even that may not help if they are hot, sick, sticky and cramped into a tiny space. For some......it's just not their thing.
Howard M17, #278
On Apr 12, 2007, at 7:50 AM, Jeff Royce wrote:
Good timing on this subject... i was just going to write about it myself. My fiance and i just went out a couple days ago in a pretty good blow. Our Monty 17 was healing at up to 30deg and we found that "exhilarating" to say the least. How much more could it take? Should we be more fearful than we were at 30deg? Does she tend to "dig in" at that angle (she seemed to)?
Also, our GPS clocked us at around 6.3mph... is that typical? Slow? I need to tune her up. She needs a new jib and some stay/shroud replacements (especially the backstay... Jerry, an order is coming your way soon).
Neither of us swim all too well and we did have our PFD's on... it was a great day... fortunately Tina is a bit of a thrill seeker. I am blessed.
Jeff Monty 17 #336
W David Scobie <wdscobie@yahoo.com> wrote: i've never chartered in warmer waters (puget sound sailer), but i'll just toss out comments/observations that i believe relate to your situation:
if 15deg heal 'freaks' your wife i encourage you to look for a boat that is known for stiffness and performs well at low levels of heal. i've not been on a Beneteau (only on land at a boat show, never in the water), but i know one will sail better than my families old cheoy lee 32' (a boat that got cranky if the heal was above 15deg because of her large beams (a '79 'fatty', not the narrower 50s and 60s models). the family boat would balance herself if the on a reach or to the wind if the sails were correct for the wind (like 'spray'). over drive the boat and she slowed down, pounded the sea, and got a case of nasty weather helm.
a boat underpowered in any sea is going to roll and pitch much more than 15deg. i've taken many a 'stinkpotter' that commented the sailboat was 'smoother' and more sea friendly than any motorboat (as they tend to rock and roll like a cork in any sea).
now a montgomery likes to be over a bit (i'd say +/- a few deg. off 20deg). easy to get leaning, but stays put once over into the 'sweet spot.' (i'm sure my comment about a M's best angle of heal for performance with start another long discussion.)
well, here are my thoughts, don't know if they are of any assistance. good luck.
dave scobie M15 #288 (not yet named)
brian gilbert wrote: Hi folks:
Here's the situation... I've finally gotten my wife to agree to a bareboat charter in the spring of next year, after our 12-year-old gets off for summer vacation.
In general, she doesn't much care for sailboats. She'll indulge me for a quick afternoon on the Monty, IF the wind is blowing (but not too much... she gets very nervous past 15 degrees of heel) and we don't stay out too long.
But I was a liveaboard sailor, and if I could talk her into it, I'd buy another large boat for some extended cruising. Karen's never overnighted aboard... my M17 is WAY too small for her. A charter, if everything goes right, is my big chance to get her hooked on the better parts of the sailing lifestyle.
I was thinking of the Moorings in the BVI on about a 32 foot Beneteau or similar. I hear that's like deer hunting using a baited field... the Virgins are so pretty and the sailing is short and easy, or so I've heard. I've never chartered a boat before, though, so I need recommendations and advice from any of you who have. Any problems to avoid, things you wish you'd brought, or unexpected surprises?
If everything goes just right, I know she'll fall in love with sailing a larger boat. If everything goes just WRONG, as it sometimes can... well, I'll probably never get her on a boat again. Your thoughts will be appreciated.
Thanks Brian Gilbert
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...now this should be interesting. Would love to see what others chime in on this topic Brian. My minor opinion. In my experience, women that are nervous and even phobic about a heeled over (ballasted) sailboat rarely convert. If it needs to be windy (I can't possibly be bored!)....but the correct amount of wind...makes the odds even less for a successful conversion. The one positive factor in your favor is that she is willing to go to the BVI and have a go. I have a couple of friends (couples) where their wives fall into this category. In one case, she will sail....but mainly to grace the deck of his MacGregor Classic as a sun tan platform. Sailing over 5-6 degrees will generate yelling and eventually bodily harm. This couple is fairly new together but have been trying to get together with the sailing side of the relationship for about 5 years. He is a life time experienced sailor. The other buddies wife will go but once a year and sail only well off the wind, but prefers motoring and anchoring..... and tends to spend all her time below. (Olsen 25) This is an older couple (60-ish) and have had a sailboat in the family from the beginning. I have also seen other situations where the female wants very much to be part of and share the guys lifestyle that they eventually become genuine in their interest in spending time sailing and one the water. I am one of the lucky ones in that my wife is a major goer. She can't live enough life, is always trying to do as much as she can and push hard all the time. She is still pissed at me for selling the last m/c. This time of year she is all over me to get the mods, repairs and maintenance done so she can get OUT THERE. Me.....I like sailing much better when the temps are a little higher thanks. If I gotta wear mittens I am staying home. My advice if you guys do the bvi thing......let her do only what she wants to do. Don't ask for her help...expect and plan to handle the boat totally solo. Including dock work, anchoring and sailing. Don't try and teach her all the names of crazy boat stuff. Don't get excited or stressed or even mutter nasty names at yourself. Handle the whole deal as if you are there as her manservant. Her job is tanning, reading, eating, drinking, swimming, clubbing or whatever she needs to do to enjoy the time on the boat. If all goes well, she will almost certainly want to be part of a similar program in home waters. Over time she will become the ultimate First Mate with Benefits. Best of luck with your program. I will send positive vibes your way. Please let us know how it all goes. I sit in extreme envy of a bareboat BVI excursion. My ultimate vacation......vacation, hell.... I want to do the BVI permanently. Canadian winters suck worse every year.....whatever happened to that global warming thing? Tim M17 #369 'Puff' Kelowna BC Canada..........................the real nice part of Canada.....~:0) =======================================================================
Hi Brian, My wife and I bareboat chartered a 40' Jeanneau in BVI with another couple a few years back. Each of us had ear-to-ear grins for the entire week. My wife is a fairly accomplished sailor and our friend Rick and I are both ASA bareboat certified, but his girl friend Judy had very little sailing experience. We were all absolutely dazzled by the entire trip. Every inhabited island in the cruising area has a wonderful anchorage with mooring balls and a wooden dock for dinghies. They also have beach bars that served wonderful food. There is plenty of opportunity to get off the boat and stroll the beaches and shop in the small markets. The snorkeling in the harbors and bays is fantastic. BVI is fabulously beautiful and the people there are exceptionally hospitable. The seas are crystal clear, aqua marine blue with white sand beaches. All of your island sailing destinations are easily navigable point of sight steering and this will help to inspire confidence in your wife. I'm certain that every charter boat has VHF, GPS and detailed charts. You can realize substantial charter savings if you go off-season. Typically the season prices are quoted A, B, C and D. From late April through September or October is D, the lowest price. We went in May. The month of May is very comfortable down there and best of all it is not at all crowded. There is also a deep discount window of opportunity during the first two weeks of December, post Thanksgiving and pre Christmas. When my wife and first started sailing together in the early '70's, she too was very nervous about heeling. After lengthy discussions she agreed to try something. I believe that by purposefully capsizing a small sailboat like a Sunfish or Sweet 16 in a controlled manner, in warm waters, close to shore, with someone who is a confident swimmer, and with PFD's on is one of the best ways to help them overcome the fear of heeling. After a few experiences like this, and by learning the process of recovery, my wife came to realize how anti-climactic and even fun the whole process can be. Best of luck to you on your quest. Mike -----Original Message----- From: montgomery_boats-bounces+frederick=law-co.com@mailman.xmission.com [mailto:montgomery_boats-bounces+frederick=law-co.com@mailman.xmission.com] On Behalf Of brian gilbert Sent: Wednesday, April 11, 2007 10:53 PM To: montgomery_boats@mailman.xmission.com Subject: M_Boats: Baiting the field... slightly OT, but sailing related Hi folks: Here's the situation... I've finally gotten my wife to agree to a bareboat charter in the spring of next year, after our 12-year-old gets off for summer vacation. In general, she doesn't much care for sailboats. She'll indulge me for a quick afternoon on the Monty, IF the wind is blowing (but not too much... she gets very nervous past 15 degrees of heel) and we don't stay out too long. But I was a liveaboard sailor, and if I could talk her into it, I'd buy another large boat for some extended cruising. Karen's never overnighted aboard... my M17 is WAY too small for her. A charter, if everything goes right, is my big chance to get her hooked on the better parts of the sailing lifestyle. I was thinking of the Moorings in the BVI on about a 32 foot Beneteau or similar. I hear that's like deer hunting using a baited field... the Virgins are so pretty and the sailing is short and easy, or so I've heard. I've never chartered a boat before, though, so I need recommendations and advice from any of you who have. Any problems to avoid, things you wish you'd brought, or unexpected surprises? If everything goes just right, I know she'll fall in love with sailing a larger boat. If everything goes just WRONG, as it sometimes can... well, I'll probably never get her on a boat again. Your thoughts will be appreciated. Thanks Brian Gilbert _______________________________________________ http://mailman.xmission.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/montgomery_boats
Anyone no where to get a deal on a 2hp honda prop.All I got around my way are Honda motorcycle outlets and when I mention outboards they throw ther hands up.As for brians problem with the wife, my opinion only, Be Happy and think about getting someone else to go. Some things are alost cause! Don Quiel So. Cal ----- Original Message ----- From: "brian gilbert" <hammerguy@bellsouth.net> To: <montgomery_boats@mailman.xmission.com> Sent: Wednesday, April 11, 2007 8:52 PM Subject: M_Boats: Baiting the field... slightly OT, but sailing related
Hi folks:
Here's the situation... I've finally gotten my wife to agree to a bareboat charter in the spring of next year, after our 12-year-old gets off for summer vacation.
In general, she doesn't much care for sailboats. She'll indulge me for a quick afternoon on the Monty, IF the wind is blowing (but not too much... she gets very nervous past 15 degrees of heel) and we don't stay out too long.
But I was a liveaboard sailor, and if I could talk her into it, I'd buy another large boat for some extended cruising. Karen's never overnighted aboard... my M17 is WAY too small for her. A charter, if everything goes right, is my big chance to get her hooked on the better parts of the sailing lifestyle.
I was thinking of the Moorings in the BVI on about a 32 foot Beneteau or similar. I hear that's like deer hunting using a baited field... the Virgins are so pretty and the sailing is short and easy, or so I've heard. I've never chartered a boat before, though, so I need recommendations and advice from any of you who have. Any problems to avoid, things you wish you'd brought, or unexpected surprises?
If everything goes just right, I know she'll fall in love with sailing a larger boat. If everything goes just WRONG, as it sometimes can... well, I'll probably never get her on a boat again. Your thoughts will be appreciated.
Thanks Brian Gilbert
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Try, http://www.defender.com/product.jsp?path=-1|215570|219582| 292326&id=181001 On Apr 12, 2007, at 1:13 PM, Quiel@charter.net wrote:
Anyone no where to get a deal on a 2hp honda prop.All I got around my way are Honda motorcycle outlets and when I mention outboards they throw ther hands up.As for brians problem with the wife, my opinion only, Be Happy and think about getting someone else to go. Some things are alost cause! Don Quiel So. Cal ----- Original Message ----- From: "brian gilbert" <hammerguy@bellsouth.net> To: <montgomery_boats@mailman.xmission.com> Sent: Wednesday, April 11, 2007 8:52 PM Subject: M_Boats: Baiting the field... slightly OT, but sailing related
Hi folks:
Here's the situation... I've finally gotten my wife to agree to a bareboat charter in the spring of next year, after our 12-year-old gets off for summer vacation.
In general, she doesn't much care for sailboats. She'll indulge me for a quick afternoon on the Monty, IF the wind is blowing (but not too much... she gets very nervous past 15 degrees of heel) and we don't stay out too long.
But I was a liveaboard sailor, and if I could talk her into it, I'd buy another large boat for some extended cruising. Karen's never overnighted aboard... my M17 is WAY too small for her. A charter, if everything goes right, is my big chance to get her hooked on the better parts of the sailing lifestyle.
I was thinking of the Moorings in the BVI on about a 32 foot Beneteau or similar. I hear that's like deer hunting using a baited field... the Virgins are so pretty and the sailing is short and easy, or so I've heard. I've never chartered a boat before, though, so I need recommendations and advice from any of you who have. Any problems to avoid, things you wish you'd brought, or unexpected surprises?
If everything goes just right, I know she'll fall in love with sailing a larger boat. If everything goes just WRONG, as it sometimes can... well, I'll probably never get her on a boat again. Your thoughts will be appreciated.
Thanks Brian Gilbert
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