Hi David, Obviously, I've repeated what you already know. Sorry, ..... But I have yet to find one that offers more than a passing nod to the more mundane skills a decent sailor ought to know, like doing laundry with salt water, keeping clean, disposing of waste at a marina (or elsewhere), ... Doing laundry with salt water We've gone on cruises for two to three weeks and could make-do with our laundry. If you go into a marina, they usually have a coin laundry (with fresh water) where you can clean clothes in a very short space of time - it just takes a handful of quarters. If you are on the hook, I recall somebody that used a 5 gallon pail on a line that hung over the side. As the boat rolled, the clothes were agitated in the bucket (using salt water soap). A "Sun Shower" does a good job for showering on board. The sun heats the water as the bag lies on the cabin top (make sure to tie it so it doesn't slide overboard); then hoist it on a halyard, press the valve and enjoy a warm fresh water shower. If you are bashful - in the middle of a harbor - then get a shower curtain, and shower curtain ring. Rig this in the cockpit, and Voila, a nice hot shower in total privacy. Works great. Connie Marinas also have their own showers and toilets which you get to use for the price of your night's tie-up costs, which solves the "disposing of waste at a marina problem". If you're lucky (as we are in New England), you might be able to buy lobsters or fresh fish there as well. But, half the fun of sailing is arriving at a new destination, and then exploring it.